For a professional DJ, speaking on a microphone should be the least of our worries. For others who may be called upon, it can be excruciating. Since all of our professions cross paths in one way or another in the course of making great weddings and events, perhaps we can help each other out by sharing this information with others who may need it for an event they are working on.

A bit of schooling for the layperson on how microphones work:

When you hear a microphone squealing, it’s called feedback. The sound is coming out of the speaker and going back into the microphone and through the system and back out the speaker and back into the microphone and a loop is created that sounds like a high pitched squeal. There are a couple of reasons that this may happen. The person using the microphone may walk in front of the high-powered speaker. They may cup their hand over the microphone in an attempt to speak to someone beside them and not have it be broadcast over the sound system. A cupped hand acts as a funnel and draws sound into the microphone and through the system and out the speaker and into the microphone again—feedback. Covering the microphone that way is also an indicator that they weren’t fully prepared to be speaking yet and should have finished preparations before they were introduced to speak. On occasion, the venue may not give the DJ the space needed to place the speakers such that there will be good stereo separation and that those who will use the microphone are far enough away from the speakers to avoid feedback in any case. I try to avoid all of these situations, but when microphones feedback, the DJ is the one who is made to look unprofessional.

To the wedding officiants: Brides and Grooms have often paid an extra fee to have a separate sound system set up for the ceremony itself. When I introduce myself to the officiant, I explain that the microphone is set in place and already turned on and that I will turn up the volume when they take their place. While shaking their hand, I’m also sizing up their height so that I may set the microphone stand exactly where it should be. It is on a boom arm so that it remains out of the way of their hands and their notes. I recently had a minister walk up to begin a lovely garden wedding ceremony and pick up the microphone stand and set it about 8 feet away, rendering it useless. His voice barely reached past the first two or three rows. The sound system provided all of the lovely music that had been chosen by the bride and groom, but more than half of the guests could not even hear the ceremony as it was spoken. Additionally, the videographer that had linked to my sound system to record those words got NOTHING!

If what you have is important enough to say at all, then let it be heard by all—over the sound system—USE the microphone! The DJ can inform microphone users on where to stand and how close to be to the microphone and he or she can even set up microphone stands exactly at the height of their mouths. Take the time to adjust the stand if needed. Trust the DJ to be the sound technician. Disregard what you think it sounds like and just speak clearly into the microphone. Let the DJ adjust the volume to reach the all of the intended listeners. Don’t suddenly step back from the microphone because you think it’s too loud or you dislike the sound of your own voice. What will happen is that the DJ will be forced to turn up the volume to try to capture what little amount of sound is reaching the microphone and risk getting more feedback.

Here’s to a great event!

~Curtis Whipple

Photo Booths are becoming more popular within the wedding industry. The concept of letting guests take as many pictures as they want and the bride having an album of all their fun photos – it’s catching on as one of the greatest wedding ideas ever. However, placement of the photo booth can either make or break the effectiveness of the concept.

There are many times when a photo booth just won’t fit in the ballroom – and a wedding planner or mother will try and put the booth at the entrance or lobby. This is okay, because guests will know where to come to get their photos. But this also means they have to physically leave the party in order to have fun in the photo booth. We’ve seem numerous occasions where guests would rather be lined up for the photo booth and opt to miss out on other reception features (cutting of cake, toasts, bouquet toss etc). When your photo booth is placed outside of the main party area – you are forcing your guests to choose between the party and the photo booth entertainment you’ve provided.

Sometimes we are placed right next to the DJ – now don’t get me wrong, we love the music. But when we are right there with the speakers blaring – it’s hard to get guests interested when they can’t hear instructions. The DJ typically needs to be front and center with the dance floor – the photo booth doesn’t need to be a main attraction.

A Photo Booth does very well along a wall or in a corner of the room, with access to remove the booth if it’s not being used for the entire event. Trust me, you won’t miss the photo booth. When it’s included in the reception area – the guests won’t have to choose to leave the party.

www.a2zphotbooths.com

Dear Industry Professionals :: A few words from a Wedding Planner
Written by, Cicely Rocha.Miller – Owner and Senior Consultant of Life Design Event Planning

First off, let me preface this posting by saying these are my feelings and I don’t represent all wedding and event planners. I hope that we are, of course, all united on the topics below but don’t want anyone to assume that I am the voice for all of us. This is just merely, little ol’ Life Design Event Planning chatting with you.

When Curtis called me to discuss his commitment to WEN and his idea about incorporating discussion through this blog, I knew I had to jump on board. Then, I was lucky enough to be invited by Mr. Curtis to write a post. He invited me to be candid, to be vulnerable and to be brutally honest. So, here I go…

I have been in business for only about four years now, certainly not long like many of the more veteran planners and vendors out there but during my time, specifically with weddings, I have learned so much and have thought that if I could get on a soapbox and scream to the industry my feelings on a few topics, I would. Now I have that chance. Here are a few hot topics I want to share with you all. I encourage feedback and more discussion at any time and if you would like to speak with me in person, I would even buy our first round.

#1 :: Vendor says, “Hey Wedding Planner, I don’t know you but will you refer me?”

Yes, we are the resource for clients to obtain referrals; we are the trusted ones that have all the “right” vendors in a “secret stash”. I like to believe I have great relationships with many vendors in the valley and even nationwide, but it is impossible, yes impossible, for me to refer everyone I come in contact with. I have hundreds, if not thousands of business cards from vendors that meet me, saying “I would love to get on your list” but never follow up, never prove themselves (and I mean it, I need to see how you can make my clients wedding better than the next vendor) or merely fight for the opportunity. Listen, I am not asking you to kiss up to me, buy me presents or give me money because I refer you. All I want, truly all I want, is my clients to walk away at the end of their day knowing that they worked with some amazing vendors and their day was completely flawless. So that being said, handing me your business card at a networker and then becoming discouraged that I didn’t call you is not necessarily someone I am interested in referring. To be frank, I don’t have a preferred vendors list, I have something even better; relationships. The vendors that I work with the most are kind, thoughtful, positive, problem solvers, a little flexible, creative, obtainable, trustworthy, respectful, understanding, charitable, amazingly gifted and professional. They have invested, not monetarily but emotionally, in me and my clients and they believe in the energy and experiences I want to articulate for them. We have lunches, we talk often and they stay connected. Simply stated, I like them as business professionals and as people and I trust their work and believe in them equally. I do try to work with many vendors multiple times because our relationship works, we fit, we rock it and the clients love us for it. So, when we meet, don’t just show me your card, connect with me, don’t ask anything of me but engage me and make me desire to work with you. When ever I have the opportunity and it’s a good fit, you are who I will think of when it’s referral time.

#2 :: Planner says, “If we are good at our job, then refer us too.”

Yes, referring is a big topic of discussion because that’s how many of us survive. I have to tell you that I get at least 70% of my business from outside relationships and past clients so “it’s all about who you know” is very apparent. But what never ceases to amaze me is the amount of people that want from us but never give themselves. Let me explain. Wedding planners are constantly being asked to refer, refer, refer. That’s what we do, so I get it, but out of all the weddings I have done I can say that only a handful of vendors, outside of other wedding planners, do the same for me. Wedding planners are becoming more involved and are finally being added to the bottom line budget. Couples are working harder, spending more and are acknowledging the value in hiring a good and professional wedding planner, but we still need your help. Many times, when couples become engaged the first thing they do is go to a venue, hence most venues have preferred lists, which is great and very useful. So the couple moves on the next decision, which is typically the photographer then it’s the DJ or band, Officiant, florist or bridal shop, etc. There are dozens of opportunities for referring but it’s so interesting how many vendors only choose to A. have a wall of business cards as “their only or main resource” and B. never engage in conversation about the importance of having a wedding planner execute the details of their day. So it’s a lot of work to do that, right? Well sure, and I don’t expect you to be a commercial for me or any other wedding planner for that matter. What I am saying is if the opportunity arises to bring up the topic, please do it. Good wedding planners will make the day so much more enjoyable for the clients. Good wedding planners will make sure that everything is in order and the clients won’t need or have to worry about anything. Good wedding planners will make your life easier, trust in your work and never second guess you like many clients would. Good wedding planners will make you look even better than you already do. Trust me, I hear it so many stories of wedding vendors having to sacrifice the quality of their work because they have to put on the problem solver hat and try to become a planner on the day for the client. Brides don’t know how to plan a wedding; they aren’t professionals at it so why wouldn’t every wedding have a project manager to plan the scope of work for them? Let me ask you this, would you build a house without a general contractor? So please, help me and all the wedding planners that work so hard to explain to people that having a good wedding planner is crucial for a flawless day because, it is.

Thanks for listening and caring about what I had to write.

With all that Life has to offer,  Cicely

www.lifedesignevents.com